When I think of emergency childbirth,
I think of the story of Lehi’s family in the Book of
Mormon. Let us quickly review the facts of the story.
Lehi and Sariah were sent into the wilderness with a bunch
of newlyweds. During the eight years of this raw survival
living, babies started to be born, and while Nephi doesn’t
give us any details of morning sickness, post partum depression,
or colicky babies (these stories are most likely recorded
on his large plates) he finds time to mention the miracles
associated with this wilderness experience, particularly those
details that relate to his children’s survival.
The daughters of Ishamael were very sad because of the death
of their father, and the fact that they had suffered from
hunger, thirst, and fatigue. They most likely were pregnant
while suffering in this way, and wanted to go home, perhaps
remembering life in Jerusalem, with servants, the comforts
of home, and plenty of food, drink, and ease with which to
make pregnancy more comfortable. Laman and Lemual were so
angry at watching their wives suffer, they decided to kill
Lehi and Nephi. But the voice of the Lord came and taught
them and chastened them and they calmed down.
In the next chapter, 1 Nephi 17:1 we read that “our
women did bear children in the wilderness.” And they
did “give plenty of suck for their children and were
strong, even like the men, and they did not murmur.”
After a time, the women adjusted to this new lifestyle and
we are told in 1st Nephi 17:3 “And thus we see that
the commandments of God must be fulfilled. And if it so be
that the children of men keep the commandments of God he doth
nourish them, and strengthen them, and provide means whereby
they can accomplish the thing which he has commanded them;
wherefore, he did provide means for us while we did sojourn
in the wilderness.”
However, later in the chapter we are told that Laman and
Lemual were still angry about the difficulties their wives
endured while in the wilderness. They said, “And thou
art like unto our father, led away by the foolish imaginations
of his heart; yea, he hath led us out of the land of Jerusalem,
and we have wandered in the wilderness for these many years;
and our women have toiled, being big with child; and they
have borne children in the wilderness and suffered all things,
save it were death; and it would have been better that they
had died before they came out of Jerusalem than to have suffered
these afflictions. Behold, these many years we have suffered
in the wilderness, which time we might have enjoyed our possessions
and the land of our inheritance; yea, and we might have been
happy.”
I often think about this story when I ponder the future.
Ancient and Modern prophets have boldly proclaimed the destruction
that is coming upon the earth before the return of the Savior.
Each day that clicks by brings us closer to the time when
we will experience the Abomination of Desolation. I wonder
what will be our response during that time, especially those
of us who are in our childbearing years.
I wonder if those of us who are pregnant and nursing and
experiencing the “Woe” prophesied by Jesus in
Matthew 24:19 will expect the Lord to provide us with the
modern tools of society to help us birth, breastfeed, heal,
and teach our babies. Or will the Lord let us struggle a little
in the wilderness while we master the arts associated with
birthing, breastfeeding, healing, and teaching our babies?
I believe he will let us struggle, for that is the pattern
in the scriptures. Father did not send a team of midwives,
obstetricians, nutritionists, lactation consultants, wet nurses,
pediatricians, pre-school teachers, and a grocery store full
of food, plastic diapers, and infant formula along with Lehi
and his family in the wilderness. Those in Lehi’s family
had the most rudimentary supplies and each other during the
eight years in the wilderness. Living so simply, that a broken
bow was a cause of great calamity.
When contemplating the destruction that is coming upon the
earth, whether it be in the form of war, natural disaster’s,
terrorism, new diseases, famine, or even something as simple
as a loss of health insurance, I believe a knowledge of the
fundamentals of Emergency Childbirth will go a long way towards
helping mothers and fathers safely and effectively bring their
little ones to the earth.
I would like to share a few helpful tips that if utilized
during birth will help the mother and baby get off to a better
start. I don’t have any medical credentials nor do I
take responsibility for any outcome that you may have during
the birth should you decide to provide fully for the health
of your family. This information is shared out of deep concern
that couples in their childbearing years need to be educated
on natural mothering in case of last days calamities.
SOME PERSONAL HISTORY
Shortly after I gave birth to my first baby in 1988, I was
reading the Bible. My baby was about two months old and I
was nursing her as I studied my Sunday school lesson. We were
reading the New Testament and I came to the 24th chapter of
Matthew. As I read these words in verse 19 “and woe
unto them that are with child, and to them that give suck
in those days!” my heart skipped a beat. Jesus had just
been describing to his disciples the signs of the times before
his second coming to the world.
As I read those words, I just knew that Jesus Christ was talking
about my generation of birthing and breastfeeding women. I
also knew deep in my heart that I had to learn everything
I could about natural mothering and be prepared that should
we have some societal disruptions in America, that I would
be prepared to birth, feed, and take care of my babies without
the help of any professionals.
My oldest daughter is now almost sixteen. Since that fateful
moment in my life, I have run down a path that to many people
seemed irresponsible and somewhat suspect as I gradually weaned
from the medical profession in regards to my mothering. We
have had four additional children since that cold morning
in February of 1989 when the words in the Bible leaped off
the page and landed straight into my heart.
SELF-SUFFICIENCY
To aid me in my journey to mothering self-sufficiency I became
A Certified Bradley Childbirth Teacher and for eight years
studied about and taught natural childbirth in every spare
moment. As a teacher, I was able to observe the impact my
teaching had on the birth outcomes of the couples that took
my class, and I was able to practice these principles in a
hands on way during my four additional births. In 1996 I decided
to stop teaching my childbirth class and became an active
participant in the unassisted childbirth movement on the Internet.
I organized the 2nd International Husband/Wife homebirth conference
in 2001 and have written three books sharing my experiences
and the birth stories of the many couples that have adopted
this lifestyle.
One of the most interesting facts as I would chat with my
friends on the internet about birth, was how many of these
couples had come to home birth because of end times preparations.
Either the wife or the husband or both had felt guided by
personal conviction that the time was soon coming when it
would be prudent to know how to birth a child alone without
a midwife or a doctor present.
Many of these couples shared with me that they had experienced
vivid dreams regarding societal chaos and instability. They
knew that they had to prepare in every facet of life to be
self-sufficient, especially in regards to Childbirth and Breastfeeding.
My prayer is that should your family decide to practice giving
birth alone before any sort of chaos, that you and each of
you will be protected from prosecution for medical negligence
by those professionals in our world who get a little antsy
when they hear of babies being born without medical assistance.
Let me begin by saying, that for many couples, just hearing
that other couples have given birth at home intentionally
with positive outcomes is enough to begin the education process
and bring comfort to their hearts. Knowing that the vast majority
of babes born at home will have no problem whatsoever is encouraging
to those making these preparations.
TERROR REALITIES
Imagine you are at home with a pregnant wife, and the electricity
goes off. You hear on the radio the city closest to you has
been attacked by a nuclear terrorist. You understand that
it is crucial to stay in a shelter for the first two weeks
after a bomb blast to protect yourself from blast fallout,
radiation, and debris. But after two days your wife tells
you she is in labor, and it is time to go to the hospital.
What to do?
Do you risk the exposure to hazardous fallout in order to
get your wife where it is supposedly safe? Or do you trust
nature and proceed at home? Assuming you could physically
get to your local hospital, it could be filled to the brim
with fallout burn victims or if the blast was accompanied
by a chemical or biological attack, the hospital would be
the last place on earth you would want your healthy wife and
newborn baby to be during and after childbirth.
So you decide to stay home. WHAT DO YOU DO?
HEAVENLY HELP
I would first challenge you to get on your knees and ask God
for specific guidance to know what your wife and child will
need during this specific birthing experience. You will be
guided to know what to do at any given moment and this will
help insure the safe passage of your child from inside the
womb to outside safely separated from your wife.
STAGES OF LABOR
Labor is composed of three parts. First stage labor is simply
about getting the cervix (the bottom opening of the womb)
open to allow the baby to move from the uterus to the birth
canal. As the cervix widens, a bloody, mucous discharge is
often released as it slowly stretches open. This stage of
labor can be aided by back massage, and hot compresses to
the back. If the mother has painful back labor, the child
will possibly be in a posterior position (when the baby comes
out it has its face away from the mother’s bottom) and
the mother could be aided by counter pressure on the lower
back while the baby moves into position to be born.
The final part of first stage, called transition, is typically
the most difficult for the mother. It is generally an intense
time of contractions one on top of the other that mark the
full expansion of the cervix as the baby prepares to be born.
During this time it is helpful for the mother to vocalize
in a loud AHHHH to help move the energy from the womb up out
of her body. I have found vocalization to be the absolute
most profound pain relief during my natural births.
SELF-DOUBT SIGNPOST
One of the common emotional signposts of transition is the
mother turning to whomever is with her and saying, “I
can’t do this anymore”. This “self-doubt”
signpost is evidence that first stage labor is almost over
and the second stage of pushing is just around the corner.
Gentle encouragement is all that is needed to let her know
she is doing great and the baby will be born soon.
SECOND STAGE – PUSHING
The second stage of labor generally begins soon after transition
and is marked by contractions that come slower and tend to
be accompanied with an intense desire to push. Some women
don’t feel this desire to push however. Encouraging
the mother to be in a standing or upright position will let
gravity aid the mother in safely delivering her child.
If it is evident that the baby is coming out feet or bottom
first (breech), it is especially important for the mother
to be in an upright or standing position during the delivery.
But she will know which position is best to deliver her child
and should be encouraged to assume whichever position feels
right to her.
I only mention the upright information because a few mothers,
influenced by the media and current medical dogma will believe
and assume that it is best to give birth laying flat on her
back, with legs up in the air. This is the absolute worst
position for a mother to give birth.
Most women will assume an upright or hands and knees position
in which to give birth if left alone. Some will feel more
comfortable giving birth in a side lying position. Again,
whichever position she feels is most comfortable to her will
be the best position to be in. Warm compresses placed on the
perineum will aid in a comfortable passage of the baby. I
kept a stack of thick cloth diapers by my side during my last
birth and my husband’s main task during the labor was
to get them wet with warm water and olive oil, which I placed
on my bottom during the birth.
It is also important for the mother to keep her bladder empty
with frequent urination during labor. Encourage her to use
the toilet every hour of labor, and especially during pushing,
a full bladder can impede the baby being born. Some mothers
experience labor diarrhea while giving birth and this again
is nature’s way of opening up the body for the safe
passage of the baby. If the rectum and bladder are full it
is just that much more space that is taken up which could
be utilized by the baby as it is born. Encourage the mother
to use the toilet.
BABY RESUSCITATION
As the baby starts to crown, whomever is with the mother can
prepare her a hot drink, and get out the bulb syringe, (this
tool is the little blue suction device they use in the hospital
to suck out the baby’s nose and throat as it is being
born to help them breathe) Bulb syringes are available at
most drug stores. The only “tool” we purchased
for our home birth was a new baby syringe to help suction
our baby’s mouth and nose. I gave birth in a standing
position and my husband stood behind me and suctioned our
son’s nose after his head was born. He also checked
to see if the cord was wrapped around the baby’s neck.
It was not, but I have read about couples that had the cord
wrapped several times around the neck, and as the baby was
born, they quickly un-looped it from the neck.
During my fourth birth, which took place at home, we were
not able to resuscitate our son, and so we called 911 for
help. The Fireman who showed up first to help, gently suctioned
my baby out with his own mouth. He placed his mouth over the
nose and mouth of my son, and sucked out the mucous, then
spit it out and gave our baby three puffs of air, and Andy
opened his eyes. I call this technique “Shawn’s
suck and spit baby survival system”.
A few days after the birth, I talked to a high-risk pediatrician
and told her about the fireman’s effective suck and
spit technique and she told me that this suctioning is a perfect
tool to resuscitate a baby as it creates a vacuum effect that
is a superior way to clear the airway of a newborn. If a birth
took place in a raw situation where no supplies were available,
the mother or the father of the baby could suction out the
baby if it was slow to breathe with their own mouths. The
bigger the baby, the longer they tend to take to breath and
pink up.
Some babies get a little stuck as the shoulders are being
born, but a lack of drugs in the mother, and an upright position
will help to turn the child to get the shoulders out. Sometimes
it helps to hook a finger under the child’s armpit and
guide them out if they seem stuck. One friend had to do this
with both shoulders as his wife gave birth to his 10-pound
son. First getting out one shoulder and then the other.
If the baby is breech, and the head gets stuck, again the
use of gravity, and a gentle guiding of the head as it is
born will help to safely birth the baby. When cold air hits
the baby’s body in a breech birth, they tend to want
to take in a breath of air, and if this happens, the mother
or father should use a finger in the baby’s mouth to
create an air passage, so the baby does not breath in any
fluid or blood as it is being born. Squatting during pushing
opens up the vaginal outlet an additional 10%, which can make
a crucial difference is the ease of passage as the baby is
born.
WATER BAG
If the water has not broken during labor, the baby can be
born in the amniotic sac. My fourth baby was born in his sac,
and it helped the birth to be pain-free, however, he was born
with a flood of water upon his arrival and this created a
very slippery situation. Having lots of clean towels, receiving
blankets, and cloth diapers on hand will help to dry the baby,
and make it easier to hold. The mother also tends to bleed
as the child emerges from her body, this is normal and is
not cause for panic.
However, if the mother seems to be hemorrhaging or bleeding
more than she should (no more than two cups of blood), immediate
breastfeeding is the absolute best cure for a post partum
bleed. I read that Japanese Midwives stand ready with a basin
to catch the blood and if the mother has hemorrhaged, they
will quickly use a bulb syringe to suck up the blood from
the basin and reintroduce it into the mother’s body
through the rectum. The rectum is the quickest way to reabsorb
the blood back into the mother’s bloodstream. Wheat
grass juice orally and rectally is also a powerful aid to
heal a post partum hemorrhage.
It is normal for the mother to bleed for up to six weeks
after the birth. If the blood comes on heavier and is bright
red in the weeks after the birth, this is evidence the mother
is doing too much and needs to slow down her activity.
Mothers should also be supported in staying in bed for three
days after the birth while the uterus contracts down to its
normal size. Breastfeeding on demand, again, facilitates this
happening.
BONDING, BREASTFEEDING, AND RELEASING THE PLACENTA
The next hour after the child is born is one of the most important
in terms of making sure the mother and child get off to the
best start physically, emotionally, and as a breastfeeding
partnership. Breastfeeding during survival times will be very
important as most families cannot afford to have more than
a month or two supply of infant formula stored. Getting educated
about exclusive breastfeeding before a terror attack will
be very important.
Practicing nursing 100% with no supplementation will give
that mother even more confidence that she will be able to
provide for her child during a long-term disruption in basic
services like communications, electricity, and water, not
to mention goods and services. Mastering this art of breastfeeding
has been one of the most difficult tasks I have ever taken
on. But it can be done and all mothers should be encouraged
at the very least, to have a copy of the book, The Womanly
art of Breastfeeding on hand to help teach her how to nurse
if we have problems.
After the child is born, immediate breastfeeding is important
for a variety of reasons. First, in the un-drugged child,
it is what they instinctively want to do. Second, immediate
nursing has powerful implications for the mother. The sucking
action of nursing releases hormones that help the uterus to
contract in order to aid in the safe detaching of the placenta.
I nursed my son immediately after he was born, and fifteen
minutes later I felt my placenta plopping down ready to be
pushed out, completely intact and with a minimum amount of
blood loss.
Immediate nursing also aids in bonding the mother to the
child, and powerful hormones are released in both the mother
and child, which create a beautiful and long lasting attachment.
As the mother feeds her child in that important first hour,
her uterus will immediately start to contract in powerful
sensations that will help in preventing hemorrhage. This is
the absolute most important reason why the mother should never
be separated from her baby in the first minutes after birth.
The mother also has Colostrum in her breasts, which is the
perfect first food for the newborn. It contains important
anti-bodies and has a laxative effect on the baby. The babies
first stool (poop), called meconium is a tar like substance
that needs to be passed out of the baby, the colostrums helps
this to happen.
As the hormones start to rage through the mother, she may
feel shaky and cold. Since these are typical shock symptoms
it is easy to get frightened if this happens. A warm drink
and wrapping the mother up with blankets and a hot water bottle
will help with these normal post birth symptoms. Dehydration
and the mother getting too cold can keep the placenta from
detaching, and so helping the mother to warm up with a warm
drink will help with both issues as she drinks and warms her
body up.
During the first twenty-four hours it is normal for the
baby to expel lots of mucous from its lungs and nasal cavity.
In the un-drugged baby, normal sneezing, coughing, and even
vomiting can be anticipated as the baby clears the amniotic
fluid from its body. I kept clean cloth diapers by my side
to help wipe away the mucous that came out of the baby that
first night. A bulb syringe or nasal aspirator can also be
kept handy to help the baby expel the mucous out of the lungs.
A common cause of post birth complications in the baby is
if the meconium that is the baby’s first bowel movement
is aspirated into the lungs. In the hospital this complication
is treated in a variety of ways, but at home, close monitoring
of the baby for signs of breathing difficulty and infection
will help to know if this has occurred. If it does, antibiotic
type herbs like Goldenseal and Usnea can be given to the mother
to be passed into the baby through the breastmilk. Essential
oil of Oregano can also be applied to the baby’s feet
and held over the child’s mouth and nose to be breathed
in to help with infection.
CORD CARE
In the hospital the cord is generally cut immediately. Over
the years I learned about a simpler and more holistic form
of childbirth called Lotus Birth. We had a lotus birth with
our last baby. It was a peaceful and gentle way to welcome
our son into our home. We simply did not cut the cord. We
wrapped the placenta up in a cloth diaper and kept it with
our son in a receiving blanket. Every time I changed the baby’s
diaper, I changed the diaper on the placenta as it dried up
and drained fluids. I aided this drying process by putting
salt and essential oil of Lavender on the placenta, and after
six days the cord detached on it’s own.
This type of birth ensures that all of the cord blood gets
back into the baby. Babies born lotus style are very content
and peaceful. If one gave birth in a survival situation, and
no scissors were available to cut the cord with, a lotus birth
would make it irrelevant. Immediate cord clamping and cutting
has been proven to cause anemia in some children, as up to
1/3 of the baby’s blood volume can be in the cord and
placenta at the time of birth. Early cord cutting has also
been implicated in the difficult detaching of the placenta
in several studies.
Should you decide to cut the cord, sterilize the scissors
in boiling water, clamp the cord on the mother and the baby’s
side with shoelaces, dental floss, or purchase some cord clamps
from a midwife supply store, and then cut the cord in between
the clamped portions of the cord.
I would encourage you to wait until the cord has stopped
pulsating or even better, wait until the placenta has fully
detached and been passed.
Get the baby to breast as soon as it is born. When the placenta
detaches, and in some cases that can take several hours, wrap
it up with the baby and keep the baby close to the mother.
Feeding the baby on demand will help the mother to produce
an abundant milk supply.
Emergency childbirth knowledge and exclusive breastfeeding
will go a long way in helping Young Americans to overcome
the Woe predicted by Jesus as the winding up scenes of the
end times of our world take place. I challenge all who are
reading this article to get educated, put in a few simple
supplies like some good books on natural childbirth and breastfeeding,
cloth diapers, cloth menstrual pads, a two week supply of
water (14 gallons per person), some food, and a few natural
remedies for infection.
I can’t express in words the comfort that has come
into my heart knowing that should we have terror when I am
expecting a baby, we will be able to make it to the other
side of a natural childbirth experience with me and the baby
just fine. I have absolute faith and confidence that if I
can do it, so could any couple who decided to get prepared
and go for it. Please, take the time to read, study, and ponder
these things. Then take some more time and put in the few
supplies needed.
Even if you don’t anticipate ever needing to give birth
alone, prepare now for that contingency should circumstances
require it. I don’t know that the things I have shared
in this article cover all of the issues that may present in
your situation, but trust that you will be guided to know
what to do for your family when the time comes. I have read
hundreds of home birth stories, and so many of these families
have claimed divine guidance and help as the baby was being
born.
I know this Heavenly Help ultimately is where safety lies.
It is my fervent testimony that as each day goes by and the
world continues to be in commotion, we can and will be able
to survive whatever happens if we muster our faith and grasp
the reality that like our ancestors hundreds of generations
back, we can give birth safely alone at home.
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